Taking stuff out of brain

What is love? Ok so this kind of straight to the point and asked by a lot of people. I know its kinda stupid to ask this question again for the I don't know time but hey, I'm just reflecting what I'm feeling today, so please bear with me cause I'm just trying to let this rustle and bustle inside my head all out.

Maybe the question I'm asking is that does true love hurt? or is it just earthly love that hurt? How can I make an non-offending example of this? hmmm... shocks.. Its kinda hard for me to give an example hehe.. uhmm..Ok I got it:

What if you fall in love with someone, but that someone has already fallen in love with someone else? Or you break up with a person but that person is still persisting to revive the relationship even if you don't want to anymore?
I might offend some people with these examples but please let me apologize because again, I'm just trying to release all the brick brack inside my head.. Its so frustrating kasi... to see some people getting hurt in the process of this "falling in love thing"..

Yeah I know what you guys are thinking right now.. That maybe its not meant to be.. na your not suppose to be with that "special someone" your really really care for.. I've accepted that fact as well..but maybe I guess the real problem is healing from those bloody wounds.. Some of you guys might know what I'm saying *or maybe not because magulo grammar ko hehe*,

=you accept na he/she's with someone, you've gotten over it and your ready to move on and start fresh but the truth is.. your still not over him/her and is still there in you heart.. breaking your heart into itty-bitty pieces once again...*sorry again for the harsh words kasi di ko namaexplain in any other way...=

haii.... maybe what I've been saying up till now is wrong.. basta.. ayaw ko na nga magexplain.. that'll do.. I won't think about it muna, it'll just destroy the other happy stuff thats going thru my life right now hehe.. But if you guys have any comments answers or violent reactions *which I wish na wala hehehe* to what I've just said, tag 'em..

*Note: Walang akong tinatamaan na mga tao sa etong blog if you guys are thinking of it... wala talaga.. promise... I'm just realeasing the useless stuff in my head and typing them all here.. PERIOD...